BDSM Play List

First things first: documents like this have been floating around the internet for years, and there have even been some so-called 'copyrights' in place. However, a careful study of copyright laws clearly indicates that collections of previously understood concepts cannot be copyrighted, as there is no original content. That, added with the importance of open, honest communication in the BDSM lifestyle, leads me to post this without reservation. Any request for me to remove it will be met with a 'no', unless that request comes with a court order. That said, if you claim to be the developer of this list, I will be more than happy to acknowledge your work on this forum.

Essentially, what follows is a list of activities common to the BDSM is lifestyle (though, hardly every BDSM enthusiast will play by the whole list....). You fill this list in two ways... by placing a Y/N answer in the dash, to indicate wether you have participated in this activity or not, and by a number rating from 0-5 in the brackets. At the end of the list is a small selection of essay questions, to be answered with as much detail as can be mustered.

I highly recommend printing this, and updating it about every three months. It makes a great tool for Doms and subs to get their heads together when planning scenes, or for simply finding if they are compatible.

0 - This activity is a hard limit that will never be performed under ANY circumstances.
1 - Activites with this rating are a turn-off, but you are willing to tolerate it.
2 - You are largely ambivalent about these activities, neither liking nor disliking them.
3 - This activity is interesting to you.
4 - This activity is a turn-on for you.
5 - This activity is a wild turn-on, and you want as much of it as you can get.

CORPORAL PUNISHMENT
__ [ ] Belts
__ [ ] Bruises
__ [ ] Caning
__ [ ] Cat-O-Nine-Tails
__ [ ] Crop
__ [ ] Flogger
__ [ ] Kitchen Implement (Spatula, Wooden spoon, etc.)
__ [ ] Paddle
__ [ ] Ruler/Yardstick
__ [ ] Spanking
__ [ ] Switch
__ [ ] Whip
__ [ ] Wooden Hair Brush

ROLE PLAY
__ [ ] Act as Furniture
__ [ ] Arrested
__ [ ] Baby
__ [ ] Burglar Attack
__ [ ] Call Girl
__ [ ] Cowgirl
__ [ ] Interrogation Scene
__ [ ] Kidnap Scene
__ [ ] Little girl/boy
__ [ ] Maid
__ [ ] Medical Scene
__ [ ] Nun/Priest
__ [ ] Rape Scene (one)
__ [ ] Rape Scene (multiple)
__ [ ] Pet Roles
__ [ ] Pony
__ [ ] Prostitution
__ [ ] Secretary
__ [ ] Student
__ [ ] Teenager
__ [ ] Torture Victim

HUMILIATION
__ [ ] Auctioned as slave
__ [ ] Bathroom use control
__ [ ] Bathroom use in front of others
__ [ ] Boot worship
__ [ ] Chauffeuring
__ [ ] Crawl on 4's
__ [ ] Cross Dressing
__ [ ] Curtsy in public
__ [ ] Dom chooses food
__ [ ] Dom chooses cloths
__ [ ] Enema
__ [ ] Eye contact restrictions
__ [ ] Foot worship
__ [ ] Forced Cross dressing
__ [ ] Forced dressing
__ [ ] Forced exercising
__ [ ] Forced nudity
__ [ ] Forced masturbation
__ [ ] Forced to be a slave
__ [ ] Forced to wear a leash
__ [ ] Forced to wear see sheer clothes
__ [ ] Golden shower
__ [ ] Harem--serving w/other(s)
__ [ ] Hood
__ [ ] Kneeling
__ [ ] Maid services
__ [ ] Mask
__ [ ] Name Calling (Whore, Slut, etc)
__ [ ] Pet roles
__ [ ] Pet play (forced sex w/pet)
__ [ ] Prostitution (real)
__ [ ] Scat Play
__ [ ] Scolding
__ [ ] Spitting in face
__ [ ] Serve as ashtray
__ [ ] Serve as toilet
__ [ ] Serve as waitress
__ [ ] Serve Others (supervised)
__ [ ] Serve Others (unsupervised)
__ [ ] Shave head
__ [ ] Shave body hair
__ [ ] Shave pubic hair
__ [ ] Slap face
__ [ ] Spanking (public)
__ [ ] Speech restriction
__ [ ] Stand in corner
__ [ ] Suck pacifier
__ [ ] Swallow urine
__ [ ] Take Pictures
__ [ ] Take Video
__ [ ] Verbal Abuse
__ [ ] Wear Collar (public)
__ [ ] Wear Collar (scenes only)
__ [ ] Wear Diapers
__ [ ] Write on Body

BONDAGE
__ [ ] Arm Sleeves
__ [ ] Blindfolds
__ [ ] Breasts
__ [ ] Gag (Ball)
__ [ ] Gag (Cloth)
__ [ ] Gag (Inflatable)
__ [ ] Gag (Phallus)
__ [ ] Cage
__ [ ] Chains
__ [ ] Chastity Belts
__ [ ] Genital
__ [ ] Harness
__ [ ] Hoods
__ [ ] Immobilization (short time)
__ [ ] Immobilization (long time)
__ [ ] Inside a closet
__ [ ] Inside a coffin
__ [ ] Katherine wheel
__ [ ] Leather cuffs
__ [ ] Leather restraints
__ [ ] Leg Sleeves
__ [ ] Mask
__ [ ] Mortuary bag
__ [ ] Mouth bits
__ [ ] Nipple Clamps
__ [ ] Nipple Weights
__ [ ] Rack
__ [ ] Rope
__ [ ] Saran wrapping
__ [ ] Scarves
__ [ ] Shackles
__ [ ] Sleeping bag
__ [ ] Sling
__ [ ] Spreader bar
__ [ ] Steel cuffs
__ [ ] Steel restraints
__ [ ] Stock
__ [ ] Straight jacket
__ [ ] Suspension (regular)
__ [ ] Suspension (up-side down)
__ [ ] Suspension (horizontal)
__ [ ] Tied/Secured to a cross
__ [ ] Wrestling

EDGE/MIND PLAY
__ [ ] Abrasion
__ [ ] Asphyxia
__ [ ] Branding
__ [ ] Breast Vise
__ [ ] Choking
__ [ ] Cloth Pins
__ [ ] Cutting
__ [ ] Electric (violet wand)
__ [ ] Electric (muscle stimulant unit)
__ [ ] Face slapping
__ [ ] Flesh Hooks
__ [ ] Gang Rape scenes
__ [ ] Genital (weights)
__ [ ] Genital (cloth pins)
__ [ ] Genital (pins/needles)
__ [ ] Genital (rope)
__ [ ] Genital (vise)
__ [ ] Genital whipping
__ [ ] Gun Play
__ [ ] Hair Pulling
__ [ ] Hot wax
__ [ ] Ice
__ [ ] Fire and Ice (same time)
__ [ ] Knife play
__ [ ] Medical scenes
__ [ ] Needles
__ [ ] Piercing
__ [ ] Pinching
__ [ ] Slap Face
__ [ ] Sleep deprivation
__ [ ] Tattoo
__ [ ] TENS units
__ [ ] Tickling
__ [ ] Torture rack
__ [ ] Water torture

FETISH WEAR
__ [ ] Corsets
__ [ ] French maid
__ [ ] Child/Baby
__ [ ] High Heels
__ [ ] Leather
__ [ ] Lingerie
__ [ ] PVC
__ [ ] Rubber
__ [ ] Slutty
__ [ ] Spandex
__ [ ] Uniforms
__ [ ] Victorian

SEXUAL D/S
__ [ ] Anal
__ [ ] Anal beads
__ [ ] Anal plugs (small)
__ [ ] Anal plugs (large)
__ [ ] Anal fisting
__ [ ] Anal (vibrator/dildo)
__ [ ] Ben-wa balls
__ [ ] Bi-sexuality
__ [ ] Chastity Belt
__ [ ] Cock Worship
__ [ ] Cunnilingus (giving)
__ [ ] Cunnilingus (receiving)
__ [ ] Double Penetration (anal & oral)
__ [ ] Double Penetration (anal & vaginal)
__ [ ] Double Penetration (oral & vaginal)
__ [ ] Fellatio (giving)
__ [ ] Fellatio (receiving)
__ [ ] Forced bi-sexuality
__ [ ] Hand jobs (giving)
__ [ ] Hand jobs (receiving)
__ [ ] Masturbation
__ [ ] Orgy (more then 3)
__ [ ] Orgasm Control
__ [ ] Orgasm Denial
__ [ ] Phone sex (voluntary)
__ [ ] Phone sex (forced to have it with others)
__ [ ] Public Sex
__ [ ] Sexual denial (short term)
__ [ ] Sexual denial (long term)
__ [ ] Swallow semen
__ [ ] Swapping
__ [ ] Threesomes
__ [ ] Triple Penetration
__ [ ] Vaginal sex
__ [ ] Vaginal fisting
__ [ ] Vaginal Toys
__ [ ] Voyeurism
__ [ ] Voyeurism (watching Master with others)

ESSAYS
Are there any roleplay scenes or playing methods not listed here that you are interested in (list them, if so)?



Do you have any medical conditions and emotional concerns that could make certain kinds of play dangerous (if so, explain)?



When did you realize you were a submissive, and what has been your experience in the lifestyle?



What do you seek from your Dominant?



What do you offer as a submissive (emotionally and spiritually)?